Is it ok to have with someone other than your spouse if?

First. Maybe your wife isn't in the mood 'cause she's PMSing or something? Just a thought, other than that, maybe she just had a bad day? But usually eases that up. On the other part of the question for the other women. Those are we call hoe's. Because they don't really give a damn about who their with/married to at the moment. They just want a good screw and keep it moving.