I feel so confused about my religious mom and ?

relax sweetie, Im in your boat. I'm a virgin as well and I am also in college the only difference between us is that my virginity is not for religious purposes (although I was raised catholic and I went to Catholic schools). I also have a lot of respect for myself and I have very high expectations. But I also understand that life is about trying new things and enjoying yourself. Weren't we granted only one life? Therefore we should live it! Talk to your boyfriend if your uncomfortable start off slow. But only do it if you want to!