Definitions of terms?

I find it quite pointless to have all these labels for different s, I'd much prefer concerning myself in issues of substance in this topic. But I am curious to know exactly what they mean if some one does bring them up. Ok I know the terms femme and butch, very self explanatory. But then I've come across many others which I can't think of right now except lipstick and stone butch. I've been called a lipstick before, and it confuses me. It seems exactly the same as a femme. And i don't like that label for myself because I don't actually wear lipstick. Well I don't like labels at all actually. Can some one tell me if there's a difference between femme and lipstick and if so what's the difference? And is there a difference between butch and stone butch? I've heard a stone butch is a butch that doesn't want ? That doesn't make a lot of sense to me to be honest.